Monday, May 2, 2011

Really?


I don't usually give credence to "hate mail" but I felt compelled to this time. I have received a number of emails regarding my last two posts. I have been criticized for posting about the royal wedding and the beatification of Blessed Pope John Paul II. I have been accused of not caring about the people in Alabama. Plug your ears, I am going to holler now.

ARE YOU FOR REAL???????? YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!!!! 

You can unplug your ears now.  I am an Alabamian by birth. I have friends and family in Alabama and all across the South. I know people who live in those hard hit areas. Of course I care, and care deeply. This is a blog people, not Fox News! This is one tiny piece of my life. There are so many areas of my life that never make it to this page. There are many triumphs, struggles, joys and heartaches I never write about. That doesn't make them less real to me. Or less important. I am insulted and offended by these emails. This is a sewing etc. focused blog. Yes, I write about things other than sewing at times but what is written here is not my life in total. Nor my heart. I am not the type of person to comment on every single thing going on in my life here or on Facebook. Do not assume what I am thinking by the tiny blips on the radar recorded here.

My heart breaks for the loss of life and property across the Southeast. They all remain in my prayers. I have spent many an hour sending emails, making phone calls, etc. checking on my friends and family. Thank you for your collective concern for those people as well. I just ask that you not assume that you know how I feel about something based on what is written here.

So we return to our regularly scheduled life of.....

36 comments:

  1. My neighborhood was hit by the tornado and I was so sad to miss the royal wedding. Life goes on. Destruction and death are facts of life but to focus on the sadness is too much. I love reading about the Pope even though I'm not Catholic my daughter in law and granddaughter and it's just interesting. Sorry you were hit with the dirty dishrag comments. I love your blog

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  2. I can get the serious news of the world at countless other sources. I don't read this blog for that purpose. I come here to see what all of the finest babies are wearing. Keep it light.

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  3. WOW, can't believe people actually emailed you criticism.... it was nice to read something NOT sad last week. Thank you!

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  4. people never cease to amaze me!! I know exactly what your blog means and I for one look forward to your sunshine spot in the day!! Let's just pray for these misguided souls!

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  5. I am sorry that folks emailed you with negative comments. It's your blog and you have the freedom to post whatever is in your heart for that day, whether it is sewing related or not. I have not posted for quite a while because: 1. I don't have a decent camera for photos and 2. My life has been on a roller coaster with my mother's health & my own. 3. I didn't really think that my readers wanted to hear about less than cheerful things.
    Beckie in Brentwood, TN

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  6. There is ALWAYS something horrible going on in the world somewhere whether we realize it or not... if we always focused on the horrible, then everyone would be miserable! Choosing to be happy and focus on something happy despite what is going on in the world around us is not heartless or uncaring... it's simply the only way to live - otherwise one would ALWAYS be miserable. When is there not something bad happening in our world? Trust you have a joyful day regardless.

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  7. Many, many of the various stitching blogs posted about the Royal Wedding, so why should your post be unusual? I thought it was nice to see the post about Blessed Pope John Paul II. You should read the article about it in the Wall Street Journal by Peggy Noonan. And you're right, you can't write about every thing you feel and see. Keep posting the way you want, it's a great blog.

    Soooo, will you post about bin Laden? Sorry, I had to throw that in. :)

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  8. Sorry you even felt the need to resond to people giving unsolicited advice. Your blog is lovely and such a nice place to visit for special things. Thanks for sharing.

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  9. I am so sorry for the inconsiderate, and completely incorrect, emails. When all around us is so much sadness and worry, it is uplifting to read posts of beauty and hope. It is obvious that these people may be loyal readers, but they really do not know you and your heart. I am so weary of people who judge so easily, yet would be furious if someone criticized or judged them for any reason.

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  10. I feel compelled to reply too. I love and have followed your blog for a long time. Thank you for posting positive and beautiful things, it brings a lot of joy to a lot of people. Just about every sewing blog I follow has commented on the royal wedding and a lot of blogs, Martha Pullen, etc. have a religious message. I do not think that should offend anybody. Keep your post as you always have don't change a thing.

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  11. Well put! I love your blog.

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  12. I am sorry to hear that someone attacked you in that way. It amazes me that they can presume to know you or even tear out a little piece of your world to beat you over the head with it. Just a few days ago, I was in the same situation. I made a remark about a political subject on Facebook and was called a very nasty name - that was also very unfounded. I felt that I had to defend myself and tried to do so in a mature way. This person then proceeded to further the allegation and called me yet more nasty things. She even mentioned my blog! She doesn't even know me! And, I had the same response... "Really, seriously?" Some people just aren't happy unless they are badgering or belittling others. Again, I'm sorry they felt they had the right to do it you. I know you are a caring person!

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  13. If I want news I know where to find it. If I want peace and a break from the news I come here. Please keep posting about the beautiful things in life. I read about the storms, I prayed for those in the path and then I also watched the wedding and heard about the happenings in Rome. All current events, some make us sad, some give us hope. Life does go on. Ignore the haters.

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  14. Martha, your blog is very uplifting and I enjoy it every day. Your creativity both in sewing and writing are amazing.Keep it up!
    Denise

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  16. SERIOUSLY !!! I thought this was your blog and you can write about anything your heart desires. We love you Martha, keep it up !!!

    I deleted my first comment because I can't spell LOL

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  17. Martha, you post about what is important to you and what you feel your readers should know is important to you. That's how it should be. You are a devout Catholic and if that is who you are it is certainly OK to express that in your posts. ITS'S YOUR BLOG! I read many blogs written by people who do not share my beliefs, but that doesn't mean they are awful people, that I am bad, or that their thoughts shouldn't be written. You just keep on doing what you are doing. It's you and that's all that matters. Do we expect the Huffington Post to be begging for long form birth certificates? I don't think so. Neither should we expect any blogger to express fabricated thoughts that aren't her's. Blogging is about expressing yourself and if others have an issue, MOVE ON!

    FWIW, I admire your faith and love of your Catholic religion. I only wish I could have the same. For me it is just not the faith I was brought up in, at least around these parts. Maybe one day it will be different.

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  18. Martha, I am in one of the hard hit areas and after being without power for 4 days, I was looking forward to looking at my favorite blogs again. Your blog was a refreshing treat after all of the sad local news!!!!!
    Love,
    Michie'

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  19. I am new to smocking and only recently discovered your blog. I was so glad to find it, your projects are such an inspiration. Just as importantly, your words and pictures have been a haven from the angst that's all to easy to find elsewhere.

    You're doing just fine, and I hope you keep it up!

    Yours,
    Nan C
    St Louis

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  20. Loved your post of the wedding and the beatification of Pope John Paul. Being a Prestbyterian I embrace all those who love Jesus Christ and God. Now we can all rejoice that Osama Bin Laden has met his deserved end. Go on in respect and love for our fellow sewists. We have so much that others could benefit from.

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  21. Oh, and by the way my church is in the process of gathering supplies and cash to send to the victims. How dare anyone criticize. Susan VH

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  22. I have to say that those who have complained about what you've posted possibly don't get it that this is YOUR blog, not theirs. And if they don't like what you post, then THEY don't have to follow. I for one love your posts and don't you dare change a thing on what you feel like writing about. I loved reading about the Royal Wedding, those flower girl dresses were divine. What you have to say is worth my time to read it. You matter!

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  23. Hmmmm....maybe that explains why I can never find the "heirloom sewing" section on cnn.com. I hope you didn't lose any sleep over such a ridiculous person or persons.

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  24. What? Lord help us all if someone would take the time to criticize a sweet lady writing about the good things in life. Don't give it a second thought.

    Thank heaven you are not Fox News! or the Weather Channel!
    (and I went to Tuscaloosa High and BAMA)

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  25. Hi Martha,
    Isn't is unreal how people think in the midst of pain that you have no control over that you should respond as they would like?? There is more than enough pain to share, and no one is responsible for qualifying or summarizing all the world's feelings. If anyone can find a place of quiet peace and happiness in another's thoughts, then the world will be better for time spent there. Thank you for being this space for me. Let the negative go and keep doing what you feel call to do. It works. Darby Logan

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  26. How sad that people think they have a right to be so nasty, and judgemental. I also love love love your blog, only recently found it and read it often. I think you have many messages of support here; hopefully enough to make up for whatever negativity that others want to throw your way.
    I think you are a lovely person, and I am sorry that people were so mean spirited towards you.
    Here is Australia we have had our share of trouble this year and sometimes it is nice to take a break from all the heartache, and go to a nice place to be, a happy place.
    BTW thanks for the song; I LOVE that song!!! There's nothing much happier than that song!!

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  27. OMWord! I have heard it all now - good grief!!! Ridiculous and such pettiness! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. By the way, I totally LOVE reading your blog no matter what's posted!

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  28. Hi Martha!

    I'm sorry to have been AWOL from commenting on your beautiful blog for awhile. Crazy times around here with Easter preps & the 3 grands home on break.

    I'm so very sorry that someone felt the need to criticize you on what you have or have not posted. Personally, I loved your posts of the wedding and the beatification of Pope John Paul. Both were tastefully done with very sincere & thoughtful commentary.

    There are SO many of our fellow sewers affected by the awful storms & like you, I too was on the phone, checking on many. I could not bring myself to even BEGIN to post publicily what I was feeling after speaking with them. Words fail me!

    I hope the person who felt they had the right to chastise you will be humbled by your response & those of others here & will reconsider what was obviously, a poor decision. They owe you an apology!

    Hugs,
    Rett

    p.s. Thanks for all the wonderful inspiration & instruction you provide.
    I'm pleating a pretty eyelet embroidered fabric today & am itching to get busy working on it.

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  29. Thank you so much for the article on the Pope! It was an article everyone needs! I love your blog and look forward to every new posting!

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  30. Adding a great big "AttaGirl" to all the previous comments! We all know folks who always have something negative to say. It seems that they aren't happy unless they're criticizing or putting someone else down. I enjoy reading your blog, seeing all the pretty clothes, and all the inspiration. Hey, I'm not Catholic. I'm dyed-in-the-wool, born again Southern Baptist, but it doesn't offend me one bit for you or other bloggers that you talk about your religion in your blog posts. Don't let all those naysayers get you down.

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  31. Don't let people bother you. I'm in the midst of this stuff and I kinda want to do a post on it but I kinda don't because it IS so sad. It's all thats on the news, its all thats talked about on the radio. I can't watch anymore. That doesn't mean I don't care, just like it doesn't mean you don't care because you aren't talking about it.

    Folks need to get a life.

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  32. Hugs to you Babe. You write about what you wish and we will read if we wish. I for one loved your post.

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  33. Are you telling me this blog is not a fox news affiliate??
    I have a big, black dog in my backyard, Martha...if you need her. :) Hugs to you!

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  34. I love your blog, Martha! Don't change a thing or yourself {and I know you won't!}

    Love from Alabama! :)

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  35. I'm here on your blog to find a pattern I saw you used once and I can't remember what it was. Not to read the news! Lol! Love that you shouted at those negative comments! And I loved the royal wedding. I got up at 4 AM to watch it! Happy to read someone else who enjoyed it as much as I did.

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  36. It's important to focus on the happy moments in life. I like the mood your blog has.

    I think the complainers need to learn to focus on the happy things in life and remember even that if one is grieving one is allowed to be happy. There is already to much sadness in a lifetime.

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